You ever watched that scene in a movie with a guy holding a rifle yelling at someone—“you’re on private property, get off my lawn!” Well, it wasn’t always this way. Land was not always owned. Before the violent colonization of Turtle Island (how natives refer to North America), land was shared with everyone.

Are you one of those people pining away to unplug from your 24/7-desperate-every-man-for-themselves-survival-game? Ever fantasize about defecting to a permaculture ecovillage loaded with likeminded friends in a warm climate with a clean water source? Or are you one of those people who think, “Fack no, I’m not sharing my vegetable garden with a bunch of facking hippies!” (Insert spitting noise here.)

Either way, you’re gonna love this episode of Clit Talk where we discuss boundaries, privacy, sharing resources, team breastfeeding, and the whole kit and caboodle of community living…or not.